So you meet this amazing person and oops! Hot flashes you get could melt a stone. You're all ecstatic about being the number one fan in this one person's life. Ladies, I know how majority of us are, nothing else probably matters at that point and Guys, Uhm... they might be more reserved on the expression because of their brutal ego. No offense intended, but it's the way God structured them. Very masculine in expression.
Then reality sets in, I'll say welcome from La La Land. You begin to see those things you dread and don't want to ever deal with. Questions about what's gone wrong bewilders the mind. Everything falls apart and yea you might crash. Many young men and women (single) make the silly mistake of involving themselves sexually and we even call it MAKE UP sex after each fight. Are we that blind to see that sex doesn't fix the whole mess. I mean you enjoy the pleasure but you walk right back to chaos.
There's an eternal void, your heart yearns for something more, and when it doesn't get satisfied. It keeps looking and might end up in the wrong place. Lots of men and women might end up cheating on their partners because what was once Heaven has lost it's savor, and they might want to experience something new with someone new. Forgetting that the same cycle will go on if they don't get it right.
Which brings me to ask, "Aren't we just the same way with God"? We're never consistent with God. He spues neither hot nor cold out of his mouth. He requires us to commune with him daily for our own benefit. I tell someone special that it'll be difficult for relationships to remain consistent, if both parties are not consistent with God.
The World will have less broken hearts if we had that same fire burning with God in us and work it out in relationships. It will get hard, it will get bumpy. It isn't all smooth but what will keep that spark in place till there's no breath left in you. Let's examine ourselves carefully and the relationships God has given us, either man or woman. What are we doing to water it? Just remember if you ain't getting it right with God constantly, it might work for a short while, but will come crashing down.
Appreciate more, Communicate more, Understand more, Trust more, Express care more because you have no idea how much time you have left. Complain less, Bicker less, Argue less and be a blessing. GET IT RIGHT!!!